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How some guys really attract older women

It’s a common fact that younger women, 18 - 35 are full of insecurities, desires to find the one and to settle down. What if that’s not what you want?
Written by: Jenny Woodward

What if you want someone who’s been there, done that, and now wants nothing more than a casual fling with a play thing? Well, you’re in luck. There is a massive trend at the moment. Beautiful women over 35 seeking younger men for dates and encounters.

Older women are experienced, wise, mature, and confident. So how do you attract one? We’ve got hold of the masters of attracting older women, who’ve shared their best methods for you to try tonight!

Exude confidence Fake it if needs be

Name: Robert
Age: 23
From: London
Likes: Women 40+

“Exude confidence, expand your horizons, and show the lovely lady that you're exactly the breath of fresh air she needs. Speak clearly, make eye contact, and act like you know what you're talking about - even if you don't. It takes guts, but you'll attract her in no time with this attitude.”

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Go online Be who you want to be

Name: Andy
Age: 28
From: London
Likes: Women 50 - 50

“I’ve tried many online Cougar dating sites before, and the one I’ve stuck with is My Cougar Dates. I had an amazing ego-boost from the get-go. I had Cougars messaging me within in a few minutes of signing up. When you’ve signed up, be clear about your needs. Though you should respect her age and wisdom, don’t look to her to make all the decisions just because she's older, or she'll start to think that you don't have much to contribute. She wants to hear that you’re independent, that you have interests and that you can hold a conversation when you go on a date.”

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Maturity matters Keep your eyes only on her

Name: Daniel
Age: 19
From: London
Likes: Women over 35

“When you first talk to your Cougar, don't compliment her straight away, or you'll sound like a kid asking for sweets. She won't take you seriously if you do. Instead, use your confidence to impress her. She won’t put up with nonsense like you flaunting your car and checking out every girl that walks by, so keep your attention on her. Try to show your keen interest in politics, current affairs, books, music - swat up on stuff if needs be! If you’re young like me and haven't accomplished a lot yet, talk about the things you want to do, your aspirations. Don't focus on what you haven't done, or she'll switch off.”

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What are they talking about
Sandra Ford - Top commenter - London

Ha ha, this article made me laugh! I must admit, I do seem to pick up quite a few men when I’m lunching with my friends - hey Emma Cornick, do you remember when that young man left his number with the waiter to give to us, then made a move at the bar? That was a very FUN night!!! ;)

Reply - - - January 13 at 3:56am
Emma Cornick - Top commenter - Reading

How could I forget, Sandra Ford! Though, that dating site I’m on is incredible! I have met a few men for drinks and dinner dates, and boy oh boy have they been good nights!! I’ll tell you about them the next time I see you at work!

Reply - - - January 14 at 10:02am